Merry CHRISTmas, Everyone!!

One of my least favorite things to give our boys for Christmas is money. That is so UNexciting. But face it, that's what they want and need. Last year we decided to take the Christmas card with their money in it off of the tree and hide it from them. We created a treasure hunt which led them to their prize. We started with one clue which led to another and then another. We had about 10 clues in all spread out in the house, the yard, and even in our cars. It was lots of fun. It actually took them about 20-25 minutes to find all of the clues. We made it hard on purpose. We plan to do the same thing this year. That is one way to make Christmas fun for those of us who have older kiddos!

I hope you have a blessed Christmas with lots of quality family time -
Robin

Don't Forget to Display your American Flag this Tuesday

With Veterans Day coming soon, I wanted to share some thoughts from Woodrow Wilson. He was the U.S, President during World War I. When the World War I ended, the people of our nation wanted to honor the veterans who served. Since the armistice (or treaty) to end the war was signed on November 11, that day was declared the day to honor our veterans. Initially it was called Armistice Day. After World War II, the name was changed to Veteran's Day.

Below are some quotes from Woodrow Wilson:

"There are a good many problems before the American people today, and before me as President, but I expect to find the solution of those problems just in the proportion that I am faithful in the study of the Word of God."

"I am sorry for the men who do not read the Bible every day. I wonder why they deprive themselves of the strength and the pleasure."

"The sum of the whole matter is this, that our nation cannot survive materially unless it is redeemed spiritually. It can be saved only by becoming permeated with the Spirit of Christ and being made free and happy of the practices which spring out of that Spirit."

It is our job as parents to ensure that our children are aware of where we as a nation came from.

Happy Veterans Day, Robin

Dads, Moms and Children

Before I put this Leman book on the shelf, I want to make several more comments. Leman points out that Dads and Moms view their children differently. Moms view children as an extension of themselves. Leman states, "To a woman, when a man spends time with their children, he's spending time with her, because children are an extension of their mother." That means when her husband loves their children and spends quality time with them, she feels as if he is loving her too.

Dads have a different view of the children. Dads don't emotionally connect them to their mother. Dads see them as separate entities that sometimes compete with him for Mom's attention. Leman uses humor to make his point. He says, "Children can be pesty little buggers sometimes, and they can really get in the way of marital intimacy."

The point that Dr. Leman makes is that we must realize the role children play in Dad's life is different from the role they play in Mom's life. He goes on to say, "The day is coming that the kids will be gone. But your husband will remain. Don't lose your place in his heart."

Have a great day, Robin

"My mother was my champion." Part 2

Below are some more quotes from Dr. Leman's book, 7 Things He'll Never Tell You.

"I loved my mother and she clearly loved me. In the midst of hard work, she would take time to go fishing with me. When I was 5 or 6 years old, we would walk to the creek and catch fish. She would celebrate each of my catches as if it were the most spectacular catch anyone had ever made! My little-boy heart would swell with pride. Perhaps my mother already knew then that I would struggle academically and that I would need this kind of boost early in life to be a success at anything.

I was always close to my mother when I was growing up. I could talk to my mother about anything-including girls and sex. My mother was always a straight talker. I knew she loved me. And, no matter what others said, she believed and expected the best of me."

As Dr. Leman tells of his mom, the recurring theme is unconditional love. She loved him and she was his biggest fan - his loudest cheerleader. This was paramount to the success of a young man who felt as if he was a failure in the world's eyes.

Have a great week and go fishing, Robin

"My mother was my champion."

As moms, we have a lot of influence. Here's the story of a mom who used her influence to change her son's life.

This week I read my first book by Dr. Kevin Leman. Dr. Leman has written many books covering various aspects of family life. In this book, he tells of his childhood. He says he was a failure, He struggled in school. He states that he was "dumber than mud." He had numerous failing grades in high school.He was thrown out of college. He later returned only to "flunk out" several times. Today Dr. Leman is an internationally known psychologist and author. What happened?

He says in his book, "...I credit my success to my mother. She, of all people, was the person who believed in me all along the way. And that gave me the firepower for success in my adult life. It gave me the confidence to discover what I was good at."

Dr. Leman's mom did not have an easy life. She had to go to work full time to help make ends meet. He was a latchkey kid. Dr. Leman goes on to say, "Throughout my childhood, my mother was my champion. Even when, in the world's eyes, I was a failure..."

More about this incredible mom in the next blog -

Have a great day, Robin

Bringing History to Life

Listed below are some things that we did to instill a sense of patriotism in our boys and bring history to life.
We displayed an American flag on a wall in our home.
We saved newspapers that recorded history making events. One of our sons collects newspapers on these days. He saved several newspapers from 9/11. We matted and framed the front page. By the way,be sure to purchase newspapers the day after the upcoming election for it will be a history making day.
Determine if there are any current or past family members who served in our Armed Forces. Then locate pictures of them in their military uniforms. Enlarge those pics to 8x10's. Frame and display them on the wall around the American flag.

We did this in one of our boys room. We have a picture of his grandfather in his navy uniform taken about 50 years ago. We also have a picture of his great-grandfather taken in his army uniform. This picture was taken around 1945 when he went to Japan to help with clean up after WWII. Visiting our son's room is like visiting a small museum. It instills a sense of pride in our family as well as loyalty to our country.

Have a great day, Robin

Faith Training: Raising Kids Who Love the Lord

I have read many parenting books. One of the best I've ever read is by Joe White. It's called Faith Training: Raising Kids Who Love the Lord. In his book, he states that 80% of all high school Christian kids abandon their faith sometime during their college days. White gives concrete ways that parents can be effective faith trainers. From his own experience of raising 4 kids, he shares with us "how to pass the baton" from generation to generation. This is not a book of philosophy; it is a book filled with practical application.

The author encourages us by letting us know that it is never too late. In fact, he started late with some of his kids. He writes of a time when he was more involved in his work than with his family. A friend looked him in the eye and told him that he was messing up by not placing a higher priority on his wife and kids.

This book is a practical how-to book filled with anecdotes. It's encouraging as it gives all of us hope when it comes to raising kids who love the Lord. While this book is appropriate for parents of kids all ages, White addresses many of the tough issues facing our teens.

Have a blessed day, Robin

Study Skills: A Must for Academic Success

Being a lifelong learner is a discipline we all should cultivate even into adulthood.The best learning takes place when several senses are tapped into (visual, auditory, kinesthetic). Below are ways to learn new material as well as review for tests.
Read and take notes.
Read aloud.
Organize information.
Listen and take notes.
Recopy notes highlighting important information.
Write out info and then rewrite it over and over.
Use index cards both white and colored as flashcards - great for memorization.
Use time in the car or while exercising to listen to lectures or audio books.
Start a study group - This works well when it doesn't become a social event. I don't think I could have passed my comprehensive exams for my master's degree without weekly study group meetings.
Review - review - review. Repetition helps us to remember.
These methods of studying tap into all styles of learning. This is just a sampling as there are many more to add to this list.
Have a great day, Robin

A Key to Learning

Good study habits are a great skill to master at any age. I didn't learn any study skills until my junior year in high school. A good friend who was a straight A student taught me how to study. I still use some of the skills she taught me as well as some tips I have picked up along the way. Part of the learning process and developing good study habits come with knowing what kind of learner you are. There are those who are auditory learners (learn by hearing) and those who are visual learners (learn by reading or seeing). There are also kinesthetic learners (learn by touching or doing). The best learning (studying) takes place when all of these methods are used.

In her book, Home-Life: The Key to Your Child's Success at School, Cheri Fuller writes about the different learning styles. She tells how to determine which learning style(s) you or your child has. She also gives activities and methods of studying that fit each style of learning.

Tips on how to study are coming soon.

Have a great day,Robin


Increase your vocabulary: curmudgeon
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Don't Have "Roast Teacher" for Dinner

I have watched this happen at football games for years. Moms sit in the stands and discuss their children's teachers. The conversation begins on a positive note. However, it's not long before the conversation takes a turn. It's even worse when "roast teacher" is served for family dinner. Make an effort to flee from this temptation. When parents criticize teachers, principals, and administrators in front of the children, it takes away the credibility of the person in authority. For example, if a child hears a parent say they don't think this is a good homework assignment and they don't know why Mrs. Jones assigned it. The child no longer sees the value in the homework and will not try to make a good grade. A parent has to power to strip away the credibility of a teacher, principal as well as a pastor or Sunday School teacher. A parent has the power to strip away the value of homework assignments. Be careful with this power. Use it to lift up those who are in authority over your children. Work to present a united front with the teacher.

If you have a hearfelt concern regarding your child's teacher, don't visit with others about it. Schedule an appointment to visit with the teacher. That's a courtesy that teachers and others in authority have earned.

Have a blessed weekend, Robin

Don't Give Up - Keep on Keepin on....

I have a friend who has been married to his wife for 56 years. His wife has been sick for a while and he takes care of her. I commented to him that she is blessed to have a husband to care for her during her prolonged illness. It appears that they have quite a love story. Below I have quoted parts of his email response:

"No two people were as ignorant at age 22 and 21 than the two of us when we got married. Our youngest son observed that he has never seen two married people so poles apart in everything as we are. In our younger days, God put me through the wringer which she had to go through with me. Probably 80%-90% of women would have left me at that time. But she stuck in there.

"A love story? It's a story of two very opposite people who stuck together in marriage and faithfulness through a lot of hard difficult times. If being a jerk was grounds for divorce, my wife would have surely left me a long time ago. So now, I gladly take care of her."

What an inspiration they are to those of us in the trenches of life.

So whatever it is that you have commited to - God, spouse, kids, parents, friends, job, finances - don't give up.

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Gal. 6:9

Have a blessed day, Robin

What is it with this Y chromosome?

I just don't get it. I am a girl. I am afraid of roller coasters, high ropes courses, snakes and the list goes on and on. It seems that this weekend there's been an extra dose of the Y chromosome in my house.

On Saturday, one of the boys told me all about his adventures the night before. It seems that he went motorcycle riding with a friend. He told me where all they went and how fast they drove. He beamed as he told me how much fun he had. I couldn't bring myself to ask him if he wore a helmet. Deep down, I knew the answer. Of course, from there he went on to tell me how long he thought it would take him to save up for a motorcycle and how much gas he would save. While I am very frugal, I didn't buy the "saving gas" logic. Desperately, I tried to think of a way to bribe him, threaten him or even ground him from motorcycle riding.

Today when we arrived home from church, our other son met me at the door. He was leaving to ride in an airplane with a friend (a real airplane!). This friend just got his pilot's license. As if riding in a airplane isn't enough, he told me his friend was going to practice his taking offs and landings. Now - I don't know much about flying but isn't that when most accidents happen? I tried desperately to think of some way to bribe him, threaten him or even ground him from airplane flying.

My husband (yet another Y chromosome) wouldn't let me bribe them, threaten them or ground them since they are almost 22 years old.

So - I have to wonder what is it that the Lord is trying to teach me? When I get the answer to this question, I will write a bestselling book.

Until then, I will continue to invest in haircolor and Aleve as well as spend time in prayer daily.

Have a great week and enjoy the Y chromosomes in your life,

Robin

Tips for Talking to Teachers - Part I

With more than 20 years experience in education and administration, I observed many dos and don'ts in the dynamics of parent and teacher communication. At times, it can be a very awkward situation - perhaps even a prescription for disaster. Most teachers are devoted to their students and passionate about their careers. As parents, we are passionate about our children (to put it mildly). Although parents and teachers have the best of intentions, our passions can collide.Throughout the month, I will give you some tips to talking with teachers.

Next week, many of you will go to "meet the teacher." I remember when I was a kindergarten teacher and we had "meet the teacher" day. With 45+ adults and children waiting to meet me, a parent backed me in the corner (literally) and told me about her son's dysfunctional family situation. She went on to tell me that because of this situation he will struggle in school. Hmmm...What's wrong with this picture? First of all, she did this in front of her son. So he listened to his mom tell of how he is going to struggle. Secondly, by the end of the night after more conversations than I could count, all I could remember is that one of my students had a real sad homelife. I couldn't remember which one.

You may have a heartfelt concern that you feel the teacher needs to be aware of (learning difference, illness, family situation, etc.). If so, wait a couple of weeks into the school year. Then schedule a private meeting with the teacher either face to face or by phone. (Most teachers will specify their preferred method of communication.) Keep in mind that email is never the best way to communicate sensitive issues.

Lastly, go out of your way to be kind on "meet the teacher" day. While you are walking in excited and refreshed, chances are the teacher is exhausted (although he/she won't show it). Most teachers spend hours getting their rooms ready for the big day.

Have a blessed day, Robin

Sending Our Kiddos Off to College

My husband often says, "Where has the time gone?" We felt this way when we took our boys to college that first year. It seemed like just yesterday that we were changing diaipers, going to ball games and reminding (fussing at) them to clean up their rooms. Here are some tips to letting go:

Keep in mind that our kids are much more resilient than we give them credit.

Don't be upset if/when they call home in tears due to homesickness. Expect this to happen. It's normal.

The 1st semester can be difficult both academicallly and socially. Developing good study habits and making new friends are adjustments for most.The 2nd semester usually goes much smoother.

As parents, we have been faithful to meet the needs of our kids all of these years. Without mom and dad nearby, this time of life allows for them to experience God's faithfulness firsthand.

Lastly, it's likely that your college student will walk you out to the car and hug you good-bye. If you remember (through the tears), grab your camera and snap a picture as he/she walks away. I did that and it made for a very special picture to be placed in my journal.


I'm sure others have some helpful hints as well. Feel free to add to the list.

Have a blessed day, Robin

Heading off to Kindergarten, College or Somewhere in Between - Part 2

Reggie the Blog Dog wants you to check out the picture on the right and then read his comment. He has some exciting news.

The first few weeks of college can be unsettling for any student - even the most popular confident kiddo. It is uncharted territory. Doug's first weekend at college was full of unknowns. First of all, his brother and his roommate were not on campus. Dan came home to get his wisdom teeth out. His roomie was finishing a trip to Europe. With no friends and no transportation, he was "stuck" at school the entire weekend. As a mom, I worried about him day and night. Although I didn't admit it to anyone at the time, deep down I wanted to go to the school and rescue him from the unknown and bring him home. Here's the funny part of the story. Doug called Saturday night and asked if we were grilling (like we usually do). He wanted to bring home a new friend (or should I say have the new friend bring him home). That weekend we met Doug's new friend Matt who is an amazing young man. Here's the point - while I was at home worrying day and night, Doug was making new friends.

Whether our kids are beginning kindergarten or college or are somewhere in between, how much time do we waste worrying about things that never happen or that we have no control over? Here are some thoughts from Linda Dillow's book, Calm My Anxious Heart:

We can worry or we can trust the Trustworthy One. We can't do both.

When we worry, we're saying, "God can't."

Worry has more to do with perspective than circumstances.

Contentment is a state of the heart not a state of affairs.

We commit sin when we worry. (Ouch! I don't like that one.)

Have a blessed day, Robin

Heading to Kindergarten, College, or Somewhere in Between - Part I

I have many friends who will be sending their kids to college in a few weeks. I remember when we did that several years ago. It was a disaster. We pulled into the college campus. We had 3 cars filled to the top. Each of the boys had his car, and we had ours. We were in a long line of cars waiting to be checked in and sent to the appropriate dorm. It was a hot Texas day - 100+ degrees. Our cell phone rang and it was Doug. He was a couple of cars behind us in the long line. He sounded tense. We looked in our rear view mirror. His truck had died and smoke was everywhere. He was holding up the entire line! Needless to say, he had his share of stares. What a way to be welcomed to your college campus for the first time! That was 3 years ago and Doug survived the experience. That's just Part 1 of the story. I will continue with Part 2 next time.

Sending our kiddos to college stirs within us a mixture of emotion. This mixture of emotion includes worry, reflection, worry, anxiety, worry, and excitement. Then there's the questions: Were we strict enough? Were we too strict? Did we teach them everything they need to know about people and life? Do they know how to iron, scrub a toliet, read a map, buy groceries? Relax and enjoy these next few weeks. I will share some tips in an upcoming post.

Have a great day, Robin

Down Time - What's That?

Due to our fast-paced lifestyle, we don't place a high priority on "down time." In fact, some of our kiddos don't even know what it is. It is time set aside to be alone and read, walk, play quietly, listen to the radio, or simply rest. It may not be called down time. It may be called rest time or nap time. Whether we realize it or not, down time is essential for all of us. It refreshes and rejuvenates us. When you have kids involved in activities and going many different directions, it is more of a challenge to find this time. Ideally, a short period of down time each day is best. However, during a busy seaon of life, several times a week might have to be sufficient. One idea is to work in a down time after a regularly scheduled part of the day. For example, right after a meal, first thing in the morning, or the last part of the day may be best. Some days the afternoon might work well.


While growing up, most days our boys had a period of down time. Even now as young men, they get grumpy if they haven't had some alone time to refresh and rejuvenate. Although our kids may complain about being sent to their rooms to rest or play quietly, it is a habit they will learn to look forward to and appreciate.




Have a great day, Robin

The Mom Test

A friend sent this to me some time ago. I don't know if it is true or not but it's fun to read.

I was walking with my 4 year old daughter. She picked up something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. I took the item away from her and asked her not to do that.
"Why?" my daughter asked.
"Because it's been on the ground, you don't know where it has been, it's dirty, and probably has germs," I replied.
At this point, my daughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, "Momma, how do you know all of this stuff? You are so smart."
I was thinking quickly. "All moms know this stuff. It's on the Mom Test. You have to know it, or they don't let you become a Mom."
We walked along in silence for 2-3 minutes, but she was obviously pondering this new information.
"Oh...I get it!" she beamed, "So if you don't pass the test you have to be the dad."
"Exactly," I replied with a big smile on my face.

Have a great day, Robin

Great Memories of Frozen Pizza and Perfect Kids

When Doug was 9 years old, I told him that we were going to have frozen pizza for dinner. He gave me a puzzled look and said, "Well, can't you warm it up first?"

When Dan was 8 years old, I was telling him good night. We were about to say his prayers. I asked him if he wanted to ask God to forgive him for anything that he had said or done wrong that day. He thought for a minute, smiled and with great relief said, "No sins today!"

These words are precious memories. I'm glad that I took the time to write down these anecdotes 10+ years ago when they happened. Otherwise, I would never be able to remember them. (Face it, I can't remember what I had for lunch today.) I wish I had written more. There were times when (in writing) I poured my heart out to the Father over a deep concern. Just the other day, I read of a time when I was worried about one of the boys. He was in the 8th grade. (Junior high can be a nightmare, can't it?) I didn't approve of some of his friends. I pleaded with the Lord to give me wisdom and to deliver him from this situation. Now I can look back and see how the Lord answered my heartfelt concern in greater ways than I could have ever imagined.

While recording these special moments takes time, it isn't meant to be one more chore. All it takes is a notebook and a pen. I have a friend who sets her spiral notebook next to her bed. Occasionally, she jots some notes in it at the end of the day. I have another friend who has a notebook for each of his kids and grandkids. On special occasions, he presents his family members with a completed journal of his thoughts, his special memories, and his prayers. It's never too late to start. When I thumb through the pages of the past, I am reminded of the many times God has been faithful even when I haven't.

Have a great day, Robin

Great Book Recommendations for Teens and Adults

Sometimes it's difficult to find non-fiction books that our teens may enjoy reading.The following books are autobiographies of men who overcame incredible obstacles. These books are best suited for teens and adults.

Gifted Hands - This is the story of Dr. Ben Carson who was mentioned in the previous blog. This is a great book particularly for anyone considering the medical field. Dr. Carson shares the difficulties of his childhood and how he overcame them. As a pediatric neurologist, he has treated children for seizure disorders as well as separated conjoined twins. He shares stories of his patients in a way that will keep you on the edge of your seat. His life is an inspiration.

Twice Pardoned - This is the moving story of Harold Morris. Back in the 60's, as a teenager he hung out with the wrong crowd. His "friends" committed a murder for which he was blamed. Morris unjustly spent the next 10 years in prison. While parts of the book are sad, it is a beautiful story of redemption. There are many valuable lessons for teens. There's also a video available called Twice Pardoned: An Ex-Con Talks to Parents and Teens. It can be found online as well as some Blockbuster stores.

The Persecutor - This is another moving story about the life of Sergei Kourdakov. Sergei was taken from his parents and raised in a Russian orphanage in the 60's. He has an incredible life story. Sergei went from persecuting Christians to becoming one. Also, much is learned about the Russia culture. I thought the book was captivating.

While all of these books promote Christian values, Twice Pardoned and The Persecutor contain some violent parts due to the nature of their stories.

Have a blessed day, Robin

One of My Favorite Moms

Even though I haven't met her personally, one of my favorite moms is Sonja Carson. She is the mom of pediatric neurosurgeon Ben Carson. Sonja became a single mom of 2 boys at a young age. She worked 2-3 jobs as a maid to provide for her boys. As a 5th grader, Ben brought home failing grades. Sonja asked the Lord to give her wisdom and to show her what she should do.

Sonja called her boys together and told them that they were to turn off the tv. They were to read 2 books from the library each week and write book reports on them. The reports were to be read aloud to her. (The boys didn't know it at the time but Sonja didn't know how to read.) Needless to say, the boys were not happy. Ben said they were "horrified." Because his mom took the high road, Ben went from being labeled as the class dummy to excelling academically. Both he and his brother earned college degrees. At the age of 33, Dr. Carson became the youngest chief of pediatric neurosurgery in the United States. He is known for successfully separating twins conjoined at the head.

It would have been easy for Sonja to feel sorry for her boys. After all, they didn't have a dad in the house. They didn't have any money. They didn't have a mom at home very much because she worked a lot. Instead she made the hard choice at the time in exchange for the great payoff later. Dr. Carson said, "Thanks to God and a courageous mother; a poor kid from the streets of Detroit has been able to take part in medical miracles."

This is an encouragement to all of us. Sometimes we have to give up the "Most Fun Mom" award and take the high road. Let me be the first to admit that this is much easier said than done especially during those junior high and high school years. Hang in there and take the high road on the things that matter. You can do it! You are not alone. Then you can look forward to the great payoff later.

Have a blessed day, Robin
Source: Mothers of Infuence published by Honor Books

Something to Think About...

I was reading a book this week called Spiritual Mothering by Susan Hunt and came across this quote:

"The truth is that we cling [to our children] because we are trying to get our security and significance from the wrong place."

Yikes! That was painful for me to read. I know that I have been guilty of this in the past. I pray that I have moved beyond that at this point. It's so easy to get our significance from raising our children. We invest so much of our time, energy and emotion in them. However, when we get our significance from our children, we create a huge problem. What happens when they misbehave? embarrass us? grow up and move away? Our security can't come from our husbands either. Our significance must come from the fact that we are daughters of the King. When we allow this truth to penetrate our inmost being, this gives us great freedom to do whatever it is that God has called us to do.

Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God...John 1:12

Have a blessed day, Robin

Celebrate "America the Beautiful"

In 1893, Katharine Lee Bates, an English professor at Wellesley College, went to the top of Pikes Peak. She hired a prairie wagon to take her much of the way. Then she had to ride a mule to get to the top. She writes that the journey was exhausting. However, when Bates reached the top, she was overwhelmed by the view. On the way home, she scribbled the four verses to "America the Beautiful" in a notebook. On July 4, 1895, the poem "America the Beautiful" first appeared in print. She wrote the final version in 1913. Over the years, it has become our unofficial 2nd national anthem. Bates was known to have commented that she hoped that she would do something with her life that was meaningful and would make a difference.

I want to thank my friends as well as those don't know, the vets and those currently serving, for making America beautiful. What a privilege it is to live in the greatest country on the face of the earth.

Be sure to display your American flag.

Have a great 4th, Robin

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Tip: Prepare for the Empty Nest

Some things to do to prepare for the empty nest phase:
Plan a fun trip
Make a career change
Read great books
Try new recipes
Take a class
Learn a new hobby (What is it you've always wanted to learn how to do but never had time?)
Decorate and/or paint a room (I really enjoyed this.)
Have lunch with friends
Adopt a pet
Renew old friendships
Get involved in political issues
Serve in the community
Serve in your church
Participate in a Bible study
Re-focus on your spouse
Recognize your new role as a behind-the-scenes prayer warrior (this is exciting!)

Remember the key is to plan ahead. The empty nest phase of life doesn't have to be empty. It can be filled with fun, family, and friends!

Have a blessed day, Robin

Tip: The Empty Nest Doesn't Have to be "Empty"

Sending kids off to college can make for quite an adjustment for mom and dad at home. There's the busyness of the senior year of high school. Then suddenly in August life, as we have known it the past 18 years,comes to a screeching halt. We know. We have been there. Some couples look forward to the empty nest and adapt beautifully. Others struggle. I struggled. Several years ago when our boys went off to school, it was a tough time for me. First of all, since we have twins, it all happened at once. I was at a loss. I eagerly waited for Friday afternoons when they would walk in with their smiling faces and their dirty laundry. I felt as if I wasn't needed any longer. In fact, I was just plain mad. I never wanted my kids to grow up anyway. I loved being a mom. I took it out on my husband. It's not that he did anything to deserve it except that he was just there. Finally, as they left for their 2nd semester, I realized that I was missing out on what could be lots of fun. And now, my husband and I are having a great time. In the next blog, I will list some things we have done adjust to this wonderful new phase of life. Robin

Mothers and Sons - Part 2

Listed are ways that we can guide our boys as they grow into young men:
Resist our desire to dominate and control. Let them make age appropriate decisions. They will make mistakes but that's how they learn.
Allow them to carry heavy things for you. For example, let them carry the groceries in at a young age. Begin this good habit early because as men, their bodies are made to lift heavy things whereas ours aren't.
Keep lots of Band-Aids on hand. Girls can be content with colors and a coloring book, not so with boys.Get ready for bumps and bruises. Give them healthy outlets to be active. Present opportunities for them to play outside, participate in sports, take karate, climb, and jump. They love to do "dangerous" activities and be daredevils.
Allow them to be your protector. If you go out for a walk after dark, insist that they go with you so that you will feel safer.
When teachable moments occur, talk to them about their role in defending the weak and helping the helpless. Look for opportunities. For example, ask an elderly lady at the store if she needs help getting her packages out to the car.

Have a blessed day, Robin

Tip: Mothers and Sons - Don't be a Mother who Smothers - Part I

There are several books written about mothers and sons. I haven't read one; however I have 21 years of OJT. Like many of you, it has been 24/7 with no morning or afternoon breaks. Of course, there are times we are physically apart but never have I had an emotional break. That's how it is with motherhood.

Like other family relationships, the bond between a mother and her son is a unique bond. However, for our sons to grow into independent productive young men, we must resist our urge to smother them as they grow older. When our boys turned 18, much to my surprise, my husband told them that they no longer had a curfew. After he said that, I followed him into our bedroom, closed the door, and asked him what he was thinking. Their curfew was midnight. I couldn't sleep until they arrived home. So now it looked like I was going to be awake even later awaiting their safe arrival home. I will never forget his response. He said, "Rob, you have to let them grow up." It's as if he took my heart out and crushed it. I didn't want to let them grow up. But the truth is, that's what we raise them for. Our hearts desire is that they grow into God-fearing young men who provide for and protect their families. We will do them a great service if we begin early to empower them to fulfill their God-given role. This is essential because the world will tell them that there are no male or female roles. On Monday, I will list ways that we, as moms, can help prepare our sons to become God's young men.

Have a blessed weekend, Robin

Tip: Great Books for Summer Reading

As parents, we want to raise lifelong learners. One way this is done is by fueling in them a passion for reading. Summer is a great time for pleasure reading. Below are recommendations for some great books. Most should be available at your local library.

Upper elementary and JH: From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler by Konigsburg - My 6th grade teacher read this book aloud to us. It is great. It is about a brother and sister who run away from home. They end up hiding in the Metropolitan Museum of Art. While there, they try to uncover a mystery. There is also a movie based on the book. It is called The Hideaways.

Upper elementary and JH: Twenty and Ten by Bishop - Great story of how 20 French kids hid 10 Jewish kids during WWII. There is a fun part in the book about a chocolate bar. It is an easy read. There is also a movie based on this book. It is called Miracle at Moreaux.

High school: The Cure for the Common Life by Lucado - Great book about what to do with your life. It helps to look ahead as to what career is best suited to your gifts and talents.

High school: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Covey - There is also a book specifically for teens. I haven't read the one for teens yet. Covey books are filled with anecdotes that offer inspiration to lead a disciplined life.

Hope these ideas are helpful.
Have a blessed day, Robin

Tip: Be Sure to Display Your American Flag

Saturday, June 14, is Flag Day. It is one of my favorite holidays. One reason is because it was my dad's birthday. The other reason is because I love our American flag. I love all it stands for, and I am thankful to God and our armed forces daily for allowing me to live in the greatest country on earth.

Below are the answers to our Flag Day quiz.

There is no evidence to support that Betsy Ross made the first flag. Evidence actually points to the fact that Francis Hopkinson, a signer of the Declaration of Independence, designed the first flag.

The 1st U.S. President to be born as an American citizen under the U.S. flag was Martin Van Buren, our 8th President.

The idea of celebrating our U.S. Flag came from a small town Wisconsin school teacher named B.J. Cigrand in 1885. Hooray! Let's hear it for our schoolteachers!

Pennsylvania is the only state that observes Flag Day as a legal state holiday. It has done so since 1937. Way to go, Pennsylvania!

The 50 star flag as we know it today was designed by a junior in high school named Bob Heft in 1958. It was a class project. He got a B- on his project.

The U.S. Flag Code was adopted on June 14, 1923 at the first National Flag Conference.

The first official flag (the star arrangement and its dimenstions) was established by an executive order signed by President Taft in 1912. This cut down on private citizens designing their own flags.

The salute to the Pledge of Alligiance was changed in 1942. It was felt the original too closely resembled the Nazi Germany "Heil Hitler" salute.

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Have a great Flag Day, Robin

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Flag Day Quiz

With Father's Day coming this Sunday, look back at the tip entitled: A $2 Treasure. It is a great idea that can be implemented on Father's Day.

Patriotism - love of our country - is a passion we must pass on to our children. We do this by recognizing patriotic holidays as well as the stories that are behind them. With Flag Day coming this Saturday, it is time for a quiz again.
Who made the very first flag?
Who was the 1st US President to be born a US citizen under the US Flag?
Which state is the only one that celebrates Flag Day as a legal state holiday?
Who designed the flag as it looks today with its 50 stars?
The Pledge of Alligiance has not always been saluted with your hand over your heart. What was the original salute and why was it changed?
Who is connected with the idea of and the conception of Flag Day?

I will post the answers on Friday.

Tip: Go to the bookstore or library and get a children's book about the United States Flag. Talk about the flag rules. Point out that we enjoy our daily freedoms thanks to the loyalty and sacrifice of those who have gone before us.

Have a great day,
Robin

Tip: The Birthday Letter

This is one of those things I wished we had started when our boys were babies. Having twins, we spent much of our time in "survival mode."

Write your child a letter each year at the time of his/her birthday. What can you write about? You can include highlights and events of the previous year. You can also include some ordinary activities and as well as funny stories. More importantly, include moments of pride, not necessarily for accomplishments and honors but for character. Think of times your child worked hard for a neighbor, told the truth when it wasn't easy, helped a friend in need, stood up for someone being picked on, gave sacrificially of time or resources, honored his/her parents, shared with a sibling, etc. This is a great place to tell of times where the Lord has been faithful throughout the year by answering prayers you prayed on your child's behalf. Then, add words of encouragement for the upcoming phase of life. Be sure to include how much you love him/her.

When do you want to give the letter? Well, when your child is a baby or toddler, put the letter away for later. You can give the letters to him/her at high school graduation or perhaps the 21st birthday. As they get older, you can give the letter on the actual birthday. Be sure to keep the letters together in a file or notebook so your child (even as an ) can look back and read at a later date.

The possibilities are endless. Grandparents can do this for their grandchildren. Also, it doesn't have to be a birthday letter. It can be at the beginning of the school year, graduations or other meaningful times.

Robin

The Out of the Box - "Why NOT Me?" Generation

Whether they deserve it or not, our youth get a lot of bad press. We often hear about the senseless things they do. Well, within the last week, I have been amazed at some of the young people who have crossed my path. Let me tell you about them.

I got an email from a friend who is serving as a missionary in Africa. She has a huge heart for the African people. She wrote, "...Rwanda needs missionaries who are faithful and willing to die with them to the end, if need be. I want to be that missionary. The one that stays with the people until the end, God willing." I had to read this several times for it to sink in. My friend is 21 years old. Wow.

When I arrived at church last Sunday morning, our regualr praise and worship team was not on stage. Instead many of our high school students were singing and playing their instruments. I was enc ouraged yet humbled as they led our entire congregation in worship. They did an outstanding job. It was priceless.

Last Saturday morning, we went to the funeral. Our friend died at age 57 leaving his wife of 27 years and 2 kids. I sat amazed as his son, a young man in his early twenties, spoke about his dad. Through his tears, he read Scripture and talked about his love for his dad in front of hundreds of people. What an amazing young man.

Last Sunday morning, the high school graduates were introduced in our church service. We were told about their plans after high school. One student plans to attend Texas A&M and then go into missions. What? You mean after getting his degree he doesn't plan to find a good paying job and make lots of money? Wow - Amazed and humbled once again.
And the list goes on and on.......

When I was in my early 20's, I was nothing like these young men and women. I was totally self-absorbed. I am humbled as I think about this next generation. I call them the Out of the Box - "Why NOT Me?" Generation. They are travelling all over the world. They are on stage using their God-given gifts and talents. They are grieving loss unashamedly. They are working through issues and nailing down their beliefs. They are surrounding themselves with "big picture" people. They are reading Maxwell, Ziglar , Covey and others who challenge them, and I am proud to say, they are accepting the challenge.

Tip: Begin Early to Prepare your Students for College - Part 3

Before I go any further with this topic, we have to agree on something. While being a lifelong learner is necessary and using our God-given brain and talents is important, college is not for everyone. There are many great people in this world who never stepped foot on a college campus. With that being said, let's continue with our college prep tip.

Summer is a great time to visit college campuses. This can be done with kiddos of any age - even those as young as elementary school. This is a great way to plant a seed for the future. It doesn't have to take a lot of effort. As you are on a summer vacation or a short trip, take the time to plan ahead and just drive through some college campuses. Get out and walk around. Walk through some classrooms and take a look at the gym. If time permits, visit with an admissions officer. This can help to narrrow down the options when the time comes to choose.

We did this with our boys. I remember one summer we drove through the beautiful campus of Ouachita Baptist University - a great college in Arkadelphia, Arkansas. I just knew it was a perfect fit for one of our boys. As we drove through the quaint scenic campus in this beautiful small town, I commented on what a great school this is. My son looked around and said, "where's the mall?" When we told him that the largest nearby city was Little Rock and that is was 45 miles away, he was not interested.That slight detour on our short trip was of great benefit because he knew then that he wanted to attend college in a big city.

Have a great day - Robin

Tip: Preparing your Students for College - Part 2

In, But Not Of - A Guide to Christian Ambition and the Desire to Influence the World by Hugh Hewitt is a great book for high school students to read. It is a quick-read and is especially appropriate for those about to head off to college. Although you may not agree with all of his points, overall, the book is filled with insight, wisdom and practical advice. Some of his chapter titles include: Tattoos: Don't, There is No Advantage in Trash Talk, Conflict is a Part of the Christian Life. He covers topics such as church, money, accomplishments, relationships, and success.

Answers to the Memorial Day quiz-
The original name for the holiday was Decoration Day.
The holiday was prompted by the Civil War. It was only celebrated by the North until after WWI. Then when soldiers from all wars were remembered, the South celebrated it as well.
Memorial Day was first observed was May 30, 1868.
Red poppies were sold to raise money for widowed wives and orphans.
No one really knows the city where the holiday first began. However, President Johnson officially named Waterloo, NY as its birthplace.
Source: www.usmemorialday.org/backgrnd

By the way, if you would like to learn more about US History and not get weighed down with dates and political terms, read children's books.

Have a great day - Robin

Happy Memorial Day!

One thing my father did for his family was a strong passionate sense of patriotism. He loved his country. Although he served in the army for a short time, he never considered himself worthy of the same recognition as soldiers who fought overseas. After 9/11, I distinctly remember my dad saying, "If they'd let me, I'd go over there and fight right now." When he made that comment, he was 65 years old. His love for the United States of America spilled over into the rest of our family.

Let's take a Memorial Day quiz -
Memorial Day was not the original name of the holiday. What was it originally called?
Which war prompted the remembrance of those who died serving our country?
What was the original date of Memorial Day?
Which flower was sold on this day to raise money for war orphaned children and widowed wives?
Although the actual city is unknown, which city was officially declared by President Johnson to be the birthplace of this holiday?

Tomorrow we will continue with Preparing your Kids for College. I will also give you the answers to the quiz so have your red grading pencil ready.

Be sure to display your American Flag and thank our soldiers and veterans.

Cherish your day of freedom - Robin

Mom Tip: Prepare your student for college. Part I

As a previous high school counselor, year after year I watched students go off to college. I watched parents send off their neatly packaged well-adjusted teen only to have their entire belief system challenged, twisted, and laughed at by liberal profs. Although maybe not as frequent, this can also happen at Christian colleges. There are some things that we can do to arm our kiddos for the battle.

I saw the movie Expelled this week. First of all, it is not an Indiana Jones type action movie. It is a documentary. Using college campuses as a backdrop, it is full of information regarding the ongoing scientific debate over evolution vs. intelligent design. Ben Stein spans the globe visiting beautiful prestiguous college campuses. He interviews some of the most brilliant scientists in the world regarding this issue. What he finds is fascinating.

I would make this "required watching" for my high school students. Offer to buy your child and a friend tickets if that's what it takes. Better yet, take them to the movie yourself and then afterward to dinner so you can discuss it.

More on college prep next time -

Mom Tip: Stay off the court - Part 2

Who would guess that there is a great tidbit of parenting advice nestled in a Stephen Covey book on leadership. In The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Covey relates an experience with his son. He wrote about how his son struggled in school, and how he and his wife often stepped in to rescue him. Then they realized that they were communicating to their son that he wasn't capable of handling the situation on his own and he needed his parents help. This was a great tidbit for me even this late in my parenting journey. One of our boys has his own business. I will often problem solve with him as to how to handle situations that arise. After reading this Covey anecdote, I make sure to say to him, "These are just some ideas. You're in charge and you are more than capable of handling any situation that comes up."

Let's agree that there are times when circumstances dictate that we jump in and advocate for our children. However, there are also times that we should stay out of the way and give them the opportunity to learn how to relate to people. Around the age of 3rd or 4th grade is a great time to begin training your children how to advocate for themselves. When they come home feeling as if they have been treated unfairly by their teacher, resist the urge to react by picking up the phone or off an unkind email. Instead help them to put into words their feelings. Go a step further and practice with them what they can say to the teacher and then saying it in a respectful tone. Even if the outcome doesn't come out favorable, it is a great learning experience.

As a previous school administrator, I watched many moms advocate for their 18 year old seniors in high school. Mom would schedule a meeting, then do all of the talking while her 18 year old just sat there. If the 18 year old began a sentence, mom would sometimes finish it for him. If you can teach your children at an early age to advocate for themselves, you will have done them a great service.

Mom Tip: Stay off the basketball court!

Something happens to us when we become moms. Being a mom brings out every protective, defensive bone in our body. When we look upon our precious baby, we determine that no one will hurt him/her. We will do anything to protect and defend them. This deep seated instinct often causes us to jump in and rescue our "babies" no matter how old they are or how big they are.

If you watched sports this week, you may have seen NBA star, Lebron James, in a playoff game. When he was the ball, a player on the other team wrapped his arms around him and kept him from making the shot. Lebron James's mom, who was sitting on the front row, jumped out of her seat and headed to the court to defend her 6'9" - 250 lbs. baby. While it was out of line for her to behave this way, it is the perfect example of how we jump in and rescue our children.

When our children are part of an unpleasant situation, we have several options. We can jump in and rescue them, guide them to problem solve and advocate for themselves, leave them alone and let them work it out on their own. The best solution depends on the circumstance and our child's age. In the NBA game, the 3rd option would have been best for Lebron's mom.

Have a great day,
Robin

Mom Tip: Great Book Recommendation

Mistaken Identity by Van Ryn and Cerak is riveting. It is the incredible story of loss, hope, faith and love in the midst of unimaginable circumstances. It all began April 26, 2006 with a van accident in which some Taylor University students and teachers were returning from a school trip. Some survived the accident and some did not. Two girls were on the trip who favored in appearance. One of the students didn't survive and the other one was in a coma. Somehow through the events of the night, their identities were switched. The family of Laura Van Ryn sat by the bedside of whom they thought was their daughter for 6 weeks. The parents of Whitney Cerak had a funeral for their daughter. The events during that 6 weeks that led to the awareness of the mistaken identity are incredible. While the story is heartwrenching at times, both families' faith in God remained steadfast through unimaginable circumstances.

Mom Tip: The Value of a Mission Trip

For the past 18 years, we tried to teach our boys that not everyone lives in a 4 bedroom house with a swimming pool AND that America is the greatest country on earth. However, this concept was "brought home" when one of our boys lived in Russia last summer. He lived with four 19-20 year old Russian orphan young men. Because they are orphans, they do not have the option to go to college. They attend a trade school but were not allowed to choose their trade. And, being orphans, they have no family.

This trip was lifechanging. When our son returned, he approached his education, his career choice and his day-to-day life with a different perspective. He now sees college and career as opportunity and is eager to seize the moment. He also doesn't waste time focusing on minor decisions. His daily life is seen from a renewed perspective, and he has a deeper love and appreciation for his family, friends and the privilege of living in America. One of his goals is to return to Russia and visit his friends soon.

Encourage your teen to look for opportunities to serve on a mission trip. It can be overseas or in the city working with the homeless. No amount of teaching can replace the actual experience of seeing other cultures firsthand.

Happy Mother's Day to all Moms and Grandmoms

TWO TEMPLES
A builder builded a temple,
He wrought it with grace and skill;
Pillars and loins and arches
All fashioned to do his will.
Men said as they saw its beauty,
"It shall never know decay;
Great is thy skill, O Builder!
Thy fame shall endure for aye."

A mother builded a temple
With loving and infinite care,
Planning each arch with patience,
Laying each stone with prayer.
None praised her unceasing efforts;
None knew of her wondrous plan,
For the temple the mother builded
Was unseen by the eyes of man.

Gone is the builder's temple,
Crumbled into the dust;
Low lies each stately pillar,
Food for consuming rust.
But the temple the mother builded
Will last while the ages roll,
For that beautiful unseen temple
Was a child's immortal soul.

by Hattie Vose Hall

Hope you have a great Mom's Day,
Robin

Mom Tip: Helpful Hint for our Teens

Last summer, I attended my 30 year high school reunion. A survey was taken. We were asked what is it that we know now that we wished we would have known 30 years ago. Without fail, the most common answer was "compound interest." I am no financial expert but here's an explanation of compound interest in a nutshell.

If a person saves $167 monthly from age 19-27 at 12% interest, then just leaves the money alone and doesn't touch it. At the age of 65, this 8 year savings of $16,000 will have multiplied to 2.2 million dollars.

If a person waits until age 27 to begin saving $167 per month and saves until age 65 at 12% interest; this 38 year savings of $761,000 will have multiplied to 1.5 million dollars.

Time is the best friend of compound interest. That is what our teens have on their side. This is a concept that we want to teach our children and teens. Some teens won't vaule this information; however, for others it could be lifechanging.

What is our motive for achieving this goal? To give it away. The Man Who Hung on the Cross is the story of a wealthy man who took a trip to India. He developed a love for the Indian people and wanted to share the gospel with them. He learned that churches could be built for a reasonable cost. So he called together his family and basically told them that he was going to spend their inheritance to build churches in India. Wow! What a great legacy to leave. We want our kids to accumulate wealth so they can experience the joy of giving.

While there are many books available to educate our teens, Dave Ramsey has a Biblically-based program developed for children and teens, He teaches the bondage of debt as well as the freedom of wealth. It can be purchased at his website.

I'll post again on Mother's Day!
Robin

Mom Tip: One Way to Build a Sense of Pride in our Kids

The other day, a friend of mine told me that her son who is a freshman in college had saved $10,000. She added that he also paid for most of his expenses during high school. When I picked myself up off the floor, I asked her how he did that. After all, he's only 18 years old. He earned it by doing good old-fashioned hard work. Since the age of 9, he and his brother have mowed lawns.

Several years ago, there was a family on a talk show. This family had many kids, and they were all "successful." The talk show host asked the parents if they had it to do all over again, what they would have done differently. They said they would have made their kids work more.

Watch for opportunities for your kiddos (at any age) to work. Talk about work as something we get to do not something we have to do. Working with friends to rake a neighbor's lawn is a great way to spend an afternoon. Seek out opportunities that fit their gifts and abilities. When there is a real need, encourage them to work for free. A hard day's work gives a sense of pride and accomplishment they won't soon forget.

Have a great day,
Robin

By the way, with Mother's Day and Father's Day coming soon, be sure to read the tip in April called A $2 Treasure. This is a great time to implement that idea.

Mom Tip: A Family Reading Journal

While cleaning out the attic the other day, I found our old Family Reading Journal. This was one of my many attempts at trying to instill a love of reading in our boys when they were younger. This is how it worked. Upon completion of a book, we were rewarded by getting to write in the Family Reading Journal. The journal was simply a spiral notebook where every member of the family reccrded the date, title, author, and summary of the book read. Lastly, we wrote whether or not we recommended the book, and then we signed our name (our signature made it official). The boys were around 6 years old when we did this, although you could start at any age.They could also put stickers next to their entry as well. I caught myself having a "mom moment" as I looked through our old journal and read the 6 year old handwriting of our now 21 year old young men. Although it has been years, from car seats to car keys seems like only a few days.

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Wishing you a blessed day,
Robin

Mom Tip: One Way to Pray for our Children

The other day a friend asked what to pray for our children. The following words immediately came to mind. While I would like to take credit for these words, I can't. Many years ago, I read them in James Dobson's book Hide or Seek. This book about building self-esteem is one of my all-time favorite parenting books.This is what he says:

"Without question, the most valuable contribution parents can make to children is to instill in them a genuine faith in Jesus Christ. What greater source of confidence can there be than knowing that the Creator of the unviverse is acquainted with us personally; that He values us more than the possessions of the entire world; that He understands our fears and anxieties and reaches out to us in immeasurable love when no one else cares; that He turns our liabilities into assets and our emptiness into fullness; that He sent His only Son to die for us and has promised us life eternal, where handicaps and inadequacies will be eliminated and pain, suffering, and tears will be no more than dim memories. What a beautiful philosophy with which to 'clothe' a child....This is self-worth at its richest."

One way to pray for our children (of all ages) is that they will grasp this life-changing concept as early as possible.

I hope you have a great day,
Robin

Blog Update

Just a note to say thank you to our readers and our subscribers. Your encouraging words and notes of appreciation mean a lot to me. Most weeks I will post M-W-F.

Reggie the Blog Dog is planning to post 1 day a week. His plan is to post on Fridays.

Keep reading and pass the word around.

Robin

Mom Tip: A Key to Raising a Lifelong Reader

Because its benefits, most parents desire that their children develop a passion for reading. Being a reader, I know this has been my heartfelt wish for both of our boys. Over the years, I have worked with intent to discover the key to raising a lifelong reader. I have narrowed it down to 2 possibilities. One is to determine what genre of book peaks your child's interest. The other is to make GREAT books of that genre easily available. My entire family enjoys reading; however, we all like different types of books. Occasionally one of us will come across a favorite and will share it excitedly with other family members. Often we will give the book back unfinished and disappointed. We don't share the same passion for the book because it is not our type of reading. I like autobiographies. My husband likes books about finance. One of our boys enjoys books about theology and the other likes motivational reading. I would rather go to the dentist than read a book about finance. My husband and the boys feel the same about autobiographies.

Summer is an opportune time to fuel this passion. Over the next few weeks, I will periodically share some recommendations for GREAT books for all ages. Books Children Love by Elizabeth Wilson is a handy reference with GREATbook recommendations for children from preschool through 6th grade. Dividing the books by genre, she shares a short summary of each book, lists the number of pages, and gives the level of difficulty.

I hope you have a great day,
Robin

Mom Tip: Connecting with Family - A Great Idea for Parents and Grandparents

A lifelong friend of mine is the grandfather of 5 teenage grandkids. They are spread out over 3 states.Each morning, my friend sends a family email to his grandkids, kids, and other family members. His emails might simply tell what he and Nana did yesterday or what they are planning to do today. Other days, he might share an award one of the grandkids has received OR he might wish family members happy birthday or anniversary. He uses these daily emails to be a "cheerleader" for his family as he is always encouraging and uplifting. Oftentimes his kids or grandkids will "reply to all" with comments about his email and updates on their lives. Then an electronic dialogue will take place throughout the day between family members. He completes his email with a thought for the day which is a quote or an encouraging word. I think this is so cool that a couple of months ago I asked to be a part of his family emails.What a difference this grandfather is making in the lives of others through the use of modern technology.This is a great way to keep everyone connected and close.

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I hope you have a great day,
Robin